I'm convinced that one of the purposes of raising children is for the adult to relinquish power of their adult's inner id. It's now the child's turn to be an id, or self-centered. I think that many times, people get angry at their kids because the parents want to be able to do what they want & when they want. Being a parent means being responsible and striving to go beyond their own animal desires 24/7. It's ok for adults to have "Me Time", but it can't be a preoccupation.
Parenthetically, I honestly don't know how single parents manage without going completely crazy. If I didn't have my tag team member, my husband, to give me that 1/2 hour of respite when he comes home from work, I'm not sure what I'd do. Thank G-d for him!! :)
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